Naked shame
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- It is wrong to date if you have no intentions of marriage
- It is wrong to have sex before marriage
- It is wrong to date a relative
- It is wrong to report abuse done by my father or relative
- If my mother is being abused by my father, it should be a secret.
This is what my society says
- A prostitute shouldn’t be treated with kindness
- A school dropout is regarded as a failure
- A lifetime single woman should not be respected
- She chose her career over being a mother, what a shame.
All society's thoughts
Imagine living in a world where you are free to live your thoughts and feelings, not minding what society will think or say. Read more
Kasalikalouisa
Life is what we make it, we are living in a world we are making. Everyone has an opinion and every person has feelings and circumstances.
We have witnessed a lot of suicidal deaths and thoughts, loosing our loved ones because of what someone said, thinks or did.
It is because of society’s thoughts that people are doing things in private, injustice is taking place, new born babies are being dumped, the rate of suicide deaths are increasing, people are not able to express their feelings and thoughts.
It is wrong to date if you have no intentions of marriage
I lived with my girlfriend but, people said it was not right for us to live together because, we were not married yet. My girlfriend and I later discovered that, living together before getting married to each other, was the right thing to do. we both discovered that we would have made a terrible mistake if we had been married before living together…I have never been married but, I have a test of it..I wonder why things like sex before marriage or Cohabiting are considered wrong when, for some people it brings realization of what the future might bring..I think some marriages Fail because, when dating, people have less to know about each other and once they marry, a lot of changes occur…and now I believe, you can’t teach someone to be a good husband or wife…u could encourage them but, experience is the best teacher.
By Joshua
hope this has some sense to some but it’s just my experience
All she ever wanted was marriage, have kids and live a happy life with her family, she found this man who promised all that to her and fulfilled his promised, years later the man found a more educated, intelligent and rich woman. He decided to divorce his wife and took everything away from her (kids, house car) and married the educated woman.
Her intentions of dating this man was marriage but, where did it lead her?
People shouldn’t date only for marriage, people can date to know more about life, to learn how other people live, to explore, for friendship and development.
It is wrong to have sex before marriage
His aim was to lose his virginity after marriage. Before he even had his first girlfriend, he was raped. He couldn’t live with the shame, thinking about what society was going to say, he committed suicide.
Having sex before marriage is forbidden in the Bible, but there are circumstances beyond human control and, human errors everyday due to heart desires but, by God’s grace, we are forgiven because, our creator is a loving God, he is not like man or society that will condemn. Having sex before marriage is okay. if one is able to control him or herself, that is amazing but, if you find yourself weak, it is okay.
It is wrong to date a relative
Dating a relative is not wrong at all. It depends on what people believe in, how they are raised, how they feel and what their intentions are.
If my mother is being abused by my father, it should be a secret
Every person is human regardless of gender, a woman is a human being, she should be equally respected and given justice just as a man would. No one is above the law, if a crime is committed, justice must prevail. The fact that aman is head of the house shouldn’t make him immune to justice or the fact that a person is a relative shouldn’t make him or her immune to justice.
A prostitute shouldn’t be treated with kindness
People in this world are carrying burdens we know nothing about. Every person’s actions is according to their life’s experiences. Some people do things they don’t believe in, not because they want to but, because they have no choice and the least they can ask from any human being is the act of making them feel like they belong. Being kind to such people is an act of a humanitarian.
A school dropout is regarded as a failure
Embracing everything society regards as wrong
No one is a failure, people just have different ways of learning and different interests. The brain cannot be forced to learn what it doesn’t want. Society says education is key to success. We have seen people who have been educated but cannot save even one life. Success is defined by a person’s dreams and goals, if education is not a person’s goal, why then should it be their key to success?
Imagine being the reason
for someone's freedom of thought.
Imagine being
that person
who talked to
a person thinking of committing
suicide but,
changed their mind
because of what
you said.
Don’t be the reason for someone’s ” what will they say if i”. Be that change, embrace what is wrong and correct it, heal the world, change begins with you.
Make those mistakes and learn from them, ignore what society thinks is right, learn your own tight from your mistakes and what life experiences teach you, do not be mislead by a fellow human being.
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